1. Being that it is spring break in our county, can you share a time on a vacation or trip when things didn't go as planned, but ultimately worked out for good?

2. As Tom asked during the message, “Can you think of a time in your life when you did what you thought God was asking you to do and the results were not what you expected?

3. Why do you think it is important to acknowledge that we may not see immediate success when we try to follow God's plan?

4. In what ways do you remind yourself that God is still present during difficult times, as suggested in the sermon?

5. Conclude your time by leading a group prayer. Here’s a suggested framework:

• Thanksgiving: Begin by thanking God for His constant presence (“I AM”) in every season of life.
• Confession & Trust: Acknowledge that sometimes we face challenges and unexpected detours when following His calling, yet we learn to trust that He is working for our good.
• Commitment: Ask for the strength to remain steadfast even when the results aren’t immediately apparent, and for the wisdom to see His promises unfold over time.
• Blessing: End by inviting God to bless each person’s journey, renewing their faith as they continue to seek and trust Him.

Synopsis of Acts 11:1-18:
In this passage, Peter returns to Jerusalem after sharing the Gospel with Gentiles and faces criticism from some believers for having associated with those they considered “unclean.” Peter explains how, while praying in Joppa, God gave him a vision—a sheet lowered from heaven filled with various animals. In that vision, God declared that nothing should be considered impure, overturning long-held traditions about clean and unclean. Peter then recounts how, through God’s guidance, he went to Cornelius’s home, where the Holy Spirit fell on the Gentiles just as it had on the Jewish believers. This divine act confirmed that God’s plan was inclusive, extending salvation to all, regardless of background. Peter’s explanation not only justified his actions but also challenged the early church to rethink its boundaries and embrace a broader understanding of community.

Message Discussion Questions:

1. What do you think gave Peter the courage to follow God’s call, even when it wasn’t popular?

2. Reflecting on Acts 11:1-3, have you ever felt compelled or challenged to offer an explanation to fellow believers for engaging with individuals outside your faith community? Please share as much as you feel comfortable sharing regarding the specific situation, your emotions, and any insights you gained from that experience.

3. We see God’s continued work in Peter’s life change his views on what was considered acceptable. Is there an area in your life where you feel God is calling you to grow or change?

4. Acts 10-11 shows the push and pull between our personal desires and God’s plan for us... How aligned are you when it comes to what you want and what you feel God is calling you to do?

GOING DEEPER: 

Conclude your group by choosing one clear action you can take this week to reach out/build stronger relationships in your community. Share that specific step with everyone in the group. Then, join together in prayer, asking God to guide your week so that His will is accomplished through each of you.

Scripture: Acts 10

Overcoming Barriers Part 1 -- Inspired by Peter and Cornelius’ story, we recognize that cultural and personal barriers can and will hinder our outreach if we let them. In this activity, we'll identify our own obstacles and discuss ways to overcome them, so we can see and connect with others as God does.

Have each person anonymously write down one barrier that keeps them from connecting with “outsiders” (e.g., cultural differences, preconceived notions, differing beliefs, etc.) Collect and set aside the submissions until the end of your discussion.

1. How does Peter’s vision -- repeated three times -- encourage you to consider the ways God persistently calls you to step out of your comfort zone? Talk about a time it has taken God calling multiple times for you act...

2. Peter was caught between what he’d always known and what God was revealing to him. How can recognizing our own barriers open us up to seeing others how God sees them?

3. Tom encouraged us to read Acts 10:34-48 on our own. As a group, read Acts 10:34-48. What words, phrases, moments, or revelations stood out to you from this passage?

Overcoming Barriers Part 2 -- Before you complete the activity, word a prayer asking God to help you see people the way He sees people. With the backdrop of Peter & Cornelius’ story, randomly draw a cultural barrier and discuss how best your group might overcome that barrier in order to reach people with the message of the gospel.

Scripture: Acts 10

1. Can you think of a time in your own life when you felt uncertain about a decision but chose to move forward anyway?

2. Why do you think it's often difficult for people to take the first step of faith without knowing the next steps?

3. How can intentional prayer, as exhibited by Cornelius and Peter, help guide us in understanding God's will?

4. What does Peter's initial reaction of 'Absolutely not!' reveal about the struggles we face when God asks us to step outside our comfort zones?

5. Have you ever had a moment where you resisted something you felt was God's calling? How did you ultimately react?

6. What is one step you can take this week to step outside your comfort zone and share Jesus with others?

Scripture: Acts 10:1-8

1. Think of a time when you prayed regularly about something important. How did that shape your understanding or situation?

2. How can regular prayer lead to significant changes in our lives, similar to how it did for Cornelius?

3. What is one area of your life where you feel you could give more to God? How might that change your experience of Him?

4. Reflecting on Acts 10:3, what significance do you think the phrase ‘one day’ holds in the context of change and hope?

5. What is something you are currently hoping or praying for that you imagine might happen ‘one day’? How does that impact your daily actions?

6. What are some ways you can incorporate seeking God’s vision into your prayer life this week?

Scripture: Acts 10:1-8

1. Are you more of a detailed planner or a “go with the flow” person? Why?

2. In his message, Tom suggests that “more” might mean giving more of ourselves to God. What is one area of your life where you feel God is asking for more?

3. What’s one “regular” thing you do—like Cornelius praying—that helps you feel closer to God?

4. Cornelius and others in the Bible acted in faith without knowing the full plan. How do you respond when God calls you to take a step of faith without all the details?

5. How do you remain faithful when you feel like you’re “one day away” from an answer to prayer?

6. Acts 10 marks a shift in taking the gospel to the Gentiles. What barriers in your life or community might God be calling you to cross to share His love?